Western's Dances: Funded By Students, For Students
Winter dances are meant to be loud: music echoing through the room, clusters of students forming and reforming, excitement building as the night unfolds. This year, the space was ready long before the crowd arrived.
Events like the winter dance are funded by students, for students. According to Xitlaly Flores, SGA Advisor and Student Life Coordinator, student funds are intentionally invested in events that create moments of connection outside the classroom. The decorations, music, and prizes are there to invite students into a shared experience rather than another obligation.
Those who have attended in the past know what happens when people show up. Last year’s dance became a space for creativity and release. Trevyn Gates and Landon Shumway took bold fashion risks – fishnets and bikinis with a willingness to commit. Karaoke ranged from “white girl music” to Y2K throwbacks. Mosh pits were formed. Prizes like iPads, LEGO sets, LED lights, and gift cards circulated through the room. Wrestlers danced alongside other athletes, workers alongside students; cultures crossing in ways classrooms rarely allow.
“Come meet people, have a good time,” said Kort Wilkinson. “It’s part of the college experience.”
Among them all, there are unique reasons to come. One such example lies with Steve Sanches, who attends during this time of year to cope after losing his father. He likes helping to set up, volunteering where he can. “It recharges my social battery,” he said. “Don’t get me wrong – being here isn’t easy for me. If I can help others enjoy their time, too, why not? It gives me a certain serotonin to see people smile.”
For non-traditional students, showing up can take courage. Steve is the father of five. He spoke about grief, about recovery, and about how closing oneself off can feel safer than risking connections. “Putting myself out here is an act of bravery,” he said.
Between students dancing in excitement over the snacks – “there’s so much, Imma be for real!” – or playing the floor is lava with balloons, something subtle happens. People move together. Even brief.
The music is already playing. The only thing left is to dance. For the Sweethearts Dance in February, Western hopes to see students there.
